Reduced movements – would you notice?

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Last year I was fortunate enough to become pregnant with my daughter, Daisy. Today I want to talk to you about reduced movements and the importance of noticing any change.

Thanks to looking out for reduced movements properly I was able to help save the life of my daughter, and possibly my own life in the process.

reduced movements - would you notice? A photo of my daughter.

When it comes to being pregnant, and reduced movements, I want to share a few pointers from the view of a first time Mum.

  • Movements usually start between weeks 16 and 20. I felt my daughter move around 16 weeks.
  • Patterns usually emerge at around 24 weeks, if your baby doesn’t have a pattern by this time then be sure to let your midwife know straight away.
  • Learn your own babies pattern. There is no set number of movements that a baby should experience and only you, as a Mother, can feel what is normal for your baby.
  • Be sure to let your partner know about your babies usual movement pattern.
  • Trust your own instincts. You know best! Trust yourself whether you are a first time Mum or have had lots of lovely babies.
  • Use a Kicks Count Bracelet to help you keep track of each day’s movement episodes.
  • Remember that movements do not slow down towards the end. Despite what well meaning idiots will tell you your baby won’t run out of room. Your baby won’t be cramped and therefore stop moving around. Your baby should keep their pattern from when it establishes all the way through. Now of course there are going to be rare exceptions to this but the important thing is to call your midwife for help right away. Don’t delay. Do not sleep on it. Don’t think you’ll mention it at your next appoint – you could be too late to save your child by then!

Trust your own instincts about reduced movements – I can’t put enough emphasis on that!

I’m sure that reading the above text is a little bit scary. I remember all too well how terrified I was during most of my pregnancy. I just KNEW that my daughter was in danger near the end. Having to attend hospital no less than 30 times in the last 6 weeks before my daughter was born was stressful but necessary. I had growth scans throughout my pregnancy, right up to 36 weeks, however, by 38 weeks my daughter’s growth was static. This was only picked up because I refused to let them tell me that she was absolutely fine. Something within me told me that something was wrong. I kept attending the department every day, with reduced movements, and despite the clear annoyance of one staff member ‘Here again are you?’ I’m not someone who is easily fobbed off and I wasn’t going to start now!

At 38 weeks + 2 days gestation I had a growth scan that showed my daughter’s growth was static, she was in danger. The induction process was started and would you know I was allergic to the pessary! After this point I was told that they would try again a week later. I refused this and asked to see a more senior consultant. Fortunately he agreed that Mums know best and the following day my daughter was born by semi-urgent c-section.

Our daughter was born because of reduced movements

When my daughter was born, at 38+4, she only weighed 5lb 13oz. She should have been 7lb + based on the growth measurements I had throughout my pregnancy. This shows just how badly my daughter was suffering in the womb.

During my daughter’s birth the placenta was so damaged that it erupted. I became dangerously ill. After losing a lot of blood, I then spent a long time in theatre.

I was told, the following day, that had I waited until full time it was almost certain that my daughter would have been a stillborn. One in 220 births is a stillborn baby in the UK, an absolutely shocking figure. My placenta would have erupted, while I was at home, and I probably would have died in the process too. It is fair to say that we had a very, very, very lucky escape! 

Look at our daughter now!

The outcome of my daughter and myself both being here, healthy and living a normal life is obviously a fantastic one. Other parents are not fortunate enough to be in the same position. This is often because of a lack of education and a number of myths about reduced movements. The below video, from Tommys, makes it clear what you should be looking for with regards to reduced movements.

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Would you notice reduced movements? What do you do if you notice reduced movements? Read more about my own story with reduced movements during my pregnancy

2 Responses

  1. Rachel Bustin November 11, 2016 / 6:58 pm

    Mums know best! My baby girl was born 14 days over due by c-section at 8lb 11oz she was moving fine all the time, by the longer we got past my due date the more scared I began to feel. I went through 2 days of being induced but she just didn’t want to come out. In the end it was an emergency c-section as she started to become distressed. Then I too lost more than 4 pints of blood which they kindly collected recycled and I had it back in me! Because of the blood recyling I felt well enough to come home the next day.

    Your little girl is gorgeous! Xx

    • Katy Stevens November 11, 2016 / 7:54 pm

      Wow – what a story !

      There was no blood recycling for me unfortunately. They then mixed my notes up with another K Stevens (Same initial/surname) and sent me home lower than the recommended level for a transfusion – oops!

      Great to know that you feel good with the blood recycling. I’ll have a c-section again now if I have another baby so will be sure to ask.

      My measured loss was around 3-4 pints, but it was more than that because of the abruption I suffered. Still, we are all here hey! Amazing really.

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